Psychologist Highlights Root Causes of Bullying Among Children

A recent study conducted by psychiatrist and psychologist, Dr. Charles Umeh from the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), has shed light on the various factors that contribute to bullying among children. Dr. Umeh stated that bullying tendencies are often observed in children who have been exposed to domestic violence in their homes or have witnessed such violence. He emphasized that the environment in which a child grows up plays a crucial role in shaping their behavior.

According to Dr. Umeh, some children, due to their upbringing, tend to lean towards violent behavior as a means of boosting their self-esteem. These children may seek to exert power over others and often display aggressive tendencies in their interactions with peers. Additionally, he mentioned that children with a predisposition to violence may be drawn to groups or activities that promote such behavior, such as cultism or boys’ groups.

Dr. Umeh also touched upon the concept of personality disorders in children, noting that certain individuals exhibit traits of antisocial personality from a young age. These individuals derive pleasure from the suffering of others and exhibit manipulative behaviors. He explained that personality disorders can manifest in children who reject authority figures and engage in harmful behaviors for their amusement.

When discussing the prevalence of bullying in primary and secondary schools, Dr. Umeh highlighted the influence of family dynamics on children’s behavior. Children who come from dysfunctional or violent households may mimic aggressive behaviors they have witnessed at home. Likewise, children who lack proper guidance and boundaries at home may seek validation through group activities, making them susceptible to bullying tendencies.

Recognizing the signs of bullying in a child is crucial for early intervention. Dr. Umeh emphasized that sudden changes in a child’s behavior, such as a decline in academic performance, increased anxiety, or social withdrawal, could indicate that the child is a victim of bullying.