Ali Wong Unveils Personal Journey in New Comedy Special ‘Single Lady’

Comedian Ali Wong has released her fourth Netflix comedy special, entitled “Single Lady,” marking a significant thematic shift from her previous works. In this self-directed special, Wong embraces her experiences post-divorce, recounting her journey with humor and candor at Los Angeles’ Wiltern Theater.

Wong, who separated from her husband of nearly ten years, Justin Hakuta, two years ago, explains how her new status led to a “carnal rumspringa,” which she narrates with the same glee as her previous anecdotes about motherhood. “I really went on a tear,” the comedian states, eager to share her many entertaining experiences.

Beyond the humor, Wong aims to challenge perceptions of divorced women, portraying herself not as pitiable, but rather as an empowered individual with control over her own life. “Look how much fun I’m having,” she tells her audience, emphasizing that her newly single life is filled with excitement.

Wong’s suitors are diverse, ranging from a famous film director to a 25-year-old admirer who sent her a “thirst trap” video. Throughout “Single Lady,” Wong cultivates a narrative of liberation from past constraints and embraces the freedom of modern dating.

Her previous special, “Baby Cobra,” highlighted Wong’s unconventional approach to wealth and relationships, famously flipping expectations by paying off her husband’s student loans. Money, along with themes of motherhood and Asian American identity, remains central to her comedic narrative, and she addresses it with a boldness in “Single Lady.”

Despite her millionaire status, Wong insists that her suitors foot the bill on first dates, highlighting her financial independence. “I know that sounds crazy,” she quips, even as she uses her wealth to liberate herself further in life and relationships.

Wong’s onstage persona also delves into her views on the dynamics of love and dating after a marriage. Her journey has seen her engage with a variety of men, and she does not shy away from cultural commentary, often critiquing male peers and their romantic narratives.

In “Single Lady,” Wong’s openness about her experiences is coupled with a more defiant tone. She has no qualms about accepting gifts from admirers or critiquing male stereotypes. A recurring joke is her self-description as “a kind 6,” comparing herself to the 10s she imagines men pursue, yet she uses this to humorously undercut her own points.

Wong’s real-life relationship with actor Bill Hader also comes into play, albeit indirectly. Though she refers to her “new boyfriend” without naming Hader, their relationship has been public knowledge since April 2023. Her romance lends the special a nuanced closure, positioning her experiences as a closed chapter that informs her comedic voice.