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Jerrod Carmichael Reflects on Love and Race in New Special

NEW YORK CITY, NY — Comedian Jerrod Carmichael tackles love, race, and identity in his latest HBO special, “Don’t Be Gay,” premiering May 24 at 10 PM ET/PT. This follow-up to his Emmy-winning special explores the aftereffects of his open relationship and how it intersects with his experience as a Black man in America.
Filmed in February at the Marjorie S. Deane Little Theater, the 53-minute special showcases Carmichael’s trademark blend of humor and raw honesty. He speaks candidly about internalized homophobia and the challenges that come with being open about his sexuality, all while maintaining a witty demeanor.
Carmichael reflects on his past struggles, including dealing with virulent online comments regarding his relationship with his white boyfriend, which triggered his journey to therapy. “Why this n—- Jerrod got a white boyfriend?” were some of the jarring remarks he faced, making him question how others perceived him.
Despite enjoying significant career success, Carmichael reveals that he still grapples with seeking validation from his community, a result of his upbringing. His relationship with his hyper-religious mother remains strained, a situation he describes as complex but one he is slowly coming to accept.
Dressed in jeans and a tank top, he seamlessly shifts from discussing his love for waffles to recounting awkward experiences, including a hilariously graphic account of past sexual encounters. This blend of personal storytelling and cultural critique invites viewers into a profoundly relatable space.
The special does not shy away from darker subjects. Carmichael talks about the grief of child funerals and reflects on how his candor has often led to tensions with his partner. Yet, his self-awareness and ability to expose his vulnerabilities resonates throughout.
As he navigates the dynamics of an open relationship, Carmichael admits discomfort with public displays of affection while also acknowledging his own roaming sexual interests. “I’m gay, and n—-s don’t read,” he quips, underlining the complexities of his identity.
In this evolution as a storyteller, Carmichael has embraced the liberation that comes from honesty. With more levity compared to his previous special “Rothaniel,” he stands proudly in his truth. As he concludes his set, viewers are reminded of the healing power of vulnerability.
“Don’t Be Gay” represents Carmichael’s growth and unwavering commitment to authenticity, making it a must-see for fans and newcomers alike.