Ali Wong Reflects on Relationships Amid New Romance with Bill Hader

In her latest Netflix comedy special, comedian and actress Ali Wong addresses her transition from married life to the single scene, and now, to a new relationship with actor Bill Hader. “I didn’t expect the news of my divorce to be so widespread,” Wong shared, revealing how the spotlight on her personal life unexpectedly influenced her comedic material.

Wong, 42, talked about the media attention following her divorce from ex-husband Justin Hakuta and how it led to an unexpected surge of romantic interest. She recounted a memorable encounter with Hader, known for his work on “Saturday Night Live” and “Barry,” highlighting how he quickly expressed his interest in her. “I want you to be my girlfriend,” Wong recalled Hader saying, indicating how direct he was in his pursuit.

The comedian humorously discussed the timing of their budding romance, noting that she had recently invested in a dating app when Hader began to send her flowers during her travels across Europe. “I told all my girlfriends…they were like, ‘Oh my God, that is so sweet.'” She contrasted this with the reaction from her male friends, who jokingly viewed such romantic gestures with suspicion.

Despite Hader’s gestures, Wong continued to date others, aiming to find the right partner who aligned with her personal and professional values. “I was so focused on finding someone I could be proud to introduce to my kids,” she admitted, reflecting on the challenges of dating as a public figure.

Wong’s relationship with her ex-husband remains strong, showcasing an amicable post-divorce dynamic. “Divorce gets a bad reputation,” Wong stated, elaborating on how she and Hakuta have maintained a friendship that works for their family. They share two daughters, Mari and Nikki, and continue to co-parent harmoniously.

The relationship between Wong and Hader was confirmed in April 2023, a year after her separation, with the couple having briefly dated in 2022 before rekindling their romance. Wong has maintained a level of privacy about her personal life, yet acknowledges the similarities between her and Hader, both being in their 40s and parents.

Ali Wong is candid about navigating love in the public eye, drawing humor from her experiences as she manages her professional successes and personal transformations, including her recent Golden Globe win and her continued friendship with Hakuta.