Two Years After Oct. 7 Attacks, Global Mourning and Remembrance Planned

JERUSALEM, Israel — On Monday, Oct. 7, people around the world, including Israelis and Jews, will mark the second anniversary of the devastating attacks in 2023 that resulted in over 1,200 deaths and 250 hostages taken by Hamas. This date is recognized as the most tragic day for Jews since the Holocaust.

Citizens from more than 40 countries were victims of this tragic event, which left deep wounds that continue to affect families and communities. Two years of ongoing conflict have led many to observe this anniversary as a time for communal mourning and healing.

In Judaism, it is customary to light candles on the anniversary of a loved one’s passing, known as Yahrzeit. Though traditionally lit by family members, anyone can light a candle in memory of those lost. This practice is rooted in Jewish teachings, specifically Proverbs 20:27, which states that a man’s soul is like the Lord’s lamp.

On Oct. 7, many will light memorial candles to honor the victims, even if they did not personally know them. These candles serve as symbols of remembrance, bringing light into the darkness left by such profound loss.

Public gatherings at gravesites will occur throughout Israel as individuals pay their respects to those lost on that fateful day. It is common for citizens to visit graveyards to show support to grieving families. However, due to the ongoing military call-ups, some family members may not be able to attend these visits, making public tributes even more significant.

Another way to honor the memory of the fallen is through Torah study, which many believe elevates the souls of the deceased. Resources for online learning are readily available, allowing people to engage with tradition while remembering those lost.

Acts of charity and volunteerism are also encouraged. The Yizkor (Memorial) prayer recited for departed loved ones includes a commitment to give to charity, which helps honor their memory through positive actions in the community. Opportunities abound for volunteering and supporting those in need, particularly among families directly affected by the conflict.

Vigils and memorial ceremonies will be held globally, with events planned in numerous cities across the United States, the United Kingdom, France, Australia, and Canada. Local Jewish Federations are frequently at the forefront of these planning efforts, providing information for those wishing to join.

In Israel, significant memorial sites include Hostage Square in Tel Aviv, where families gather to advocate for the release of hostages. Additionally, memorials at locations impacted by the attacks, like the Nova Music Festival site, are also being established. However, access to certain memorials may be restricted, so visitors should verify availability online.

Art exhibitions and memorial displays worldwide also aim to commemorate the victims. Virtual tours of these exhibitions provide insights into the communities affected by Oct. 7, facilitating remembrance and reflection.

As the anniversary approaches, it is crucial to not only remember those we have lost but to cherish those who remain. Spending time with loved ones and engaging in community building can provide solace and stability during this challenging time.

On Memorial Day in Israel, the phrase “bemotam tzivu lanu et hachayim,” or “in their death, they commanded us to live,” serves as a reminder that despite the sorrow, it is vital to continue living and embracing life. The events leading up to this anniversary have weighed heavily on many, and taking the time for personal reflection and connection with others is encouraged.